Ok, don't normally ask for help, but rather lookin to see what others would do in this sitaution: You meet someone new, that you totally like, really enjoy hangin out with, and are into the same things and totally drop dead beautiful. You go out with them two or three times and totally hit it off. Now the catch: She leaves in two weeks to go to California and I live in North Carolina. No way to change that. Do you approach her and talk about long distance relationships or do you throw it out the door, sock it up as a fling and move on? Balls in your court.
Depends on... How long you have known her and whether you think there is more to the relationship than a casual fling. Long distance relationships require a lot of work and compromise on both parties.
just do booty calls, ita alot easier and imho, long distant relationships are basically same thing. besides while your in carolina and she is in ca, do you really think for a second she wont be hooking up with any other dudes, no disrespect intended ! just a reality check. just my .02
Do what she's doing, treat it like a fling. She's moving, what does she care the last couple weeks she's here? If she calls you from California, keeps in touch and you don't mind talking with her, then you have a booty call if you come to visit.
Do you really hit it off or is the fact that she's leaving and it's that "hard to get" factor coming into play? Anytime this kind of thing happened to me the thing that made it so great is that you could be yourself knowing it probably wouldn't go anywhere. Just play it cool and tell her you'd like to stay in touch. If it's meant to be then somehow things will work out. Meanwhile two words, get some "back up."
If she's going to CA that might be your answer right there. Has she brought it up? 'cause if she hasn't, it probably isn't likely. But, that said, keep it light and keep in contact. You never know. Good luck
The number of girls I've seen move out here from bum-f*ck nowhere and get hooked on the first guy with a Benz that they see: 15,458. Number of long distance relationships that I've seen last: 0 -Chris Image Unavailable, Please Login
thanks for the responses. This is kind of like I got to test drive an enzo, but now its leaving for someone else to pound on. I guess time takes care of all. Thanks!
Wrong perspective... You got to test drive an Enzo, now you are going to sit back and make a decision whether the Enzo is worth going after. Sure it seems like the best thing out there, but have you looked at all other options?
Update: Tried to discuss the issue over the phone, but got shut down as she said, let me think about it and we will discuss it tomorrow because i am tired and going to sleep. What I hear: Can you not take a hint punk. Conclusion: Case closed, wheres the next hottie at?
F uck her as much as you can before she leaves and then never talk to her again. That's the proper thing to do.
"She's one in a million ..." There are six billion people on the planet. There are 6000 others just like her. Women are like subway cars: They travel in groups There's another along every few minutes There are fewer after 2AM Long before you ever see them, a lot of other people have already messed 'em up bad.
People are always attracted to things they cant have. If she was staying in your town and was keen, you'd probably not have a bar of her, but because she is moving away and you're not likely to ever see her again, she's suddenly the wholy grail. She might also be a lot more chilled and pleasant to be with at the moment as she is about to leave behind her troubles. Simple answer is ask her if she wants anything more, but dont be surpirsed if you get a custard pie.
Second that! I think proof of hotness is necessary at this point. BTW, can you post a shot of her tail number? Perhaps just the tail?
give it up-you'd know already if there was enough there to try a long distance relationship. move on!
Lesson: heed the signs. The faster and better one gets at reading the signs, the better one gets at avoiding NEEDLESS pain.
Thanks for the heads up. Ever notice, no one makes threads about "I am seeing this stunningly beautiful girl but she is moving in two weeks to Kansas, Nebraska, North Carolina, Spokane, Alabama, ,Mississippi........." There must be something to it
Don't forget West Virginia... damn freaking inbred women are all we have. The handful of hot women are bonkers.
